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Author: Joy Eidse MSW, RSW

The Shadow Side of the Wellness/Self Help/Mental Health Industry

December 4, 2019December 9, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / Leave a comment

When we use wellness strategies, mental health diagnosis and medication and see help guides to avoid acknowledging larger social concerns, we risk doing harm to ourselves and others.

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Hope-Based Living

November 20, 2019November 20, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 1 Comment

According to attachment theory humans require an emotional foundation from which to hope and risk and venture out. I've shared where I find my security in hopes that you might discover yours.

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Calming Panic

November 6, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 1 Comment

If we have experienced trauma in our lives, our system may be on high alert and send adrenalin through our bodies even when it is not needed.

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“Headline Distress Disorder”

October 23, 2019January 3, 2023 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 5 Comments

Anger has it's place, for sure, but it is important to also cultivate passion which is a motivator that produces more energy, rather than taking it away. In other words, what do you want to build? Can you model what you want to see in the world?

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Childhood and its influence on Adult Alcohol Consumption

October 16, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / Leave a comment

This study showed that people who scored 4 or more on the ACE questionnaire were seven times as likely to become addicted to alcohol.

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How Social Norms, the Media & Gender can make Sobriety Difficult

October 9, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 2 Comments

We shame those "who can't handle their alcohol"and we shame those who don't drink when we want to. This is called a toxic culture.

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Acknowledging Everyday Griefs – Parenting, Friendship, Aging & Faith

October 2, 2019September 30, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 2 Comments

If you can acknowledge grief and loss instead of minimizing or judging yourself for feeling it, then you will be able to heal and carry on. 

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Acknowledging Everyday Griefs – Seasons, Social Change & Stages of Life

September 25, 2019September 24, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 3 Comments

We need to acknowledge this grief, in order to not lose hope. We need to acknowledge the size of the loss and it's repercussions. Then we need to search out those who share our desires for social change and partner with them. Sometimes we will need to simply grieve together.

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Dealing with Intrusive Memories

September 18, 2019September 18, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / 1 Comment

 A starting place in addressing intrusive memories is to understand that our memories are multifaceted and that each facet can be addressed in order to lesson their intensity and impact on us.

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Chronic Suicidal Ideation

September 11, 2019September 10, 2019 / Joy Eidse MSW, RSW / Leave a comment

"Chronic suicidal ideation takes so many forms. It can be fantasizing about passing during sleep, developing a terminal disease, dying in a tragic accident. Or it’s background noise, a staticky station whispering taunts you can almost, but never entirely, tune out." Anna Borges

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Joy Eidse

About Joy Eidse

Joy Eidse is a registered Social Worker living in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada. She works as a counsellor for individuals wanting to work on issues related to mental health or trauma. Send Joy a message.

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